The first day at nursery is a big moment for both you and your child. It’s the start of a new routine, new friends, and a whole new world. But we get it—change can feel overwhelming.

That’s why nursery preparation is key. With the right steps, your child can walk in happy and confident from day one.

Let’s break it down. Here’s how to prepare your little one for their first nursery or playgroup transition.

Emotional Readiness Comes First

Toddlers don’t always know how to express fear or excitement. So, it’s up to us to guide them emotionally. Start talking about nursery early. Keep it fun and simple.
Say things like:
You’ll play with new toys.

You’ll meet friendly teachers.

I’ll pick you up after snack time.

Repeat often. Use storybooks, pretend play, or nursery rhymes to explain the routine.
Also, practice short separations. Let your child spend time with a grandparent or babysitter. These small steps build trust and reduce anxiety.

Visit the Nursery Before Day One

Familiarity helps toddlers feel safe. If possible, tour the nursery before the start date. Let your child explore the space and meet the staff.

During your visit, point out:

Where they’ll eat

Where they’ll nap

Where the toys are

Who the teacher is

This turns the unknown into something exciting.

Teach Basic Independence

Preparing toddlers for daycare includes small, daily habits. Help your child feel confident by practicing independence at home.
Start with:
Putting on shoes

Washing hands

Feeding themselves

Asking for help politely

You’re not just prepping for nursery—you’re building lifelong skills.

Pack Smart, Pack Light

Here’s what to pack for the first day:

A backpack

A water bottle

Change of clothes

A comfort item (blanket or toy)

Diapers or wipes (if needed)

Snacks or lunch (check with the nursery)

Label everything. It makes life easier for teachers—and avoids mix-ups.

Create a Consistent Goodbye Routine

Goodbyes can be emotional. Make them short, sweet, and consistent. Create a simple routine like:

A hug

A high five

See you soon!

Never sneak away. This builds trust and helps your child feel secure.

Communicate with the Nursery Team

Teachers want your child to succeed. Share important info with them, such as:
Your child’s likes or fears

Naptime routine

Health or allergy concerns

Good communication helps staff understand and support your child better.

Expect a Range of Emotions

Every child reacts differently on day one. Some cry, some run in. Both are okay.
Nursery transitions take time. Don’t stress if it takes a few days—or weeks. Stay calm and positive. Your child follows your lead.

Celebrate Every Little Win

After the first day, talk about the fun parts. Say:
I saw your art!

You made a new friend!

You did great!

Even the smallest success deserves praise. This keeps them motivated and excited to return.

Ready for the First Day?

Your child’s first day at nursery should feel like a new adventure, not a challenge. With the right preparation, they’ll walk in with a smile—and you’ll feel peace of mind.
Explore trusted nurseries near you. Tour the space. Ask questions. Build the confidence both of you need to thrive.

A well-prepared child is a happy child. Start the journey today.